He aha te tikanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena mo te wahine takakau e ai ki a Ibn Sirin?

Mei Ahmed
2023-10-24T10:46:42+00:00
Moemoea o Ibn Sirin
Mei AhmedKaipānui: Omnia SamirHanuere 14, 2023Whakahoutanga whakamutunga: 6 marama ki muri

Te whakarite mo te marena i roto i te moemoea mo nga wahine takakau

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka tohu pea kei te whakaatu koe i to hiahia ki te marena me te mea kua rite koe ki te timata i tetahi oranga hou me to hoa hoa.
Ko tenei moemoea pea he whakaaturanga o to hiahia ki te noho me te wheako i te aroha aroha me te oranga whanau.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka whakaatu pea i to tumanako ki te kimi hoa ora hei awhina i a koe me te whakatutuki i o moemoea me o wawata.
Ka pai pea to whakaaro me te ngakau nui ki a koe mo to hinengaro me to whanau kei te heke mai, me te whakapono ko te marena te huarahi tika ki te whakatutuki i to harikoa me to tino tangata.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka waiho hei whakaaturanga mo to whakaritenga mo te waahi hou o to oranga.
Ka marena koe, he maha nga mea ka huri, ka hiahia pea koe ki te whakarereke, ki te whakarereke i to ahua me to whakaaro rereke.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i to rerirangi mo enei huringa me to hiahia ki te urutau me te tipu hei tangata.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena he whakaaturanga pea o to hiahia ki te kimi i te haumarutanga o te hinengaro me te pumau.
Ko te marena he hononga pumau i hangaia i runga i te whakawhirinaki me te whakaute, a ka whakaaro koe ma te marena ka hoatu ki a koe te haumarutanga me te pai o te ngakau e rapu ana koe.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka tohu pea ka whakaarohia e koe te marena he whakatau nui me te hiahia ki te whakamahere me te whakaaro tika i mua i te tango i tenei taahiraa.
Ko tenei moemoea pea he whakamaharatanga ki a koe me whakaaro koe ki nga waahanga nui penei i te whiriwhiri i te hoa pai me nga whakaritenga putea me te hapori i mua i to haere ki te marena.

Ko te moemoea o te whakarite mo te marena i roto i te moemoea mo te wahine takakau he whakaaturanga pea o o hiahia me o wawata i roto i to oranga ngakau me to whanau.
Ko tenei moemoea ka whai hua pai ki to ahua me te whakaatu i te tumanako me te tumanako mo nga ra kei mua.
Engari, me mahara koe ko te whakamaoritanga moemoea he whakatau noa mai i te tirohanga a te tangata, a kaua koe e kii hei tino pono.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite marena mo te wahine kotahi mai i te tangata e kore e mohiotia

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite marena mo te wahine kotahi me te tangata e kore e mohiotia ka tohu i to hiahia ki te kimi i te hoa pai i roto i te ao.
Ko tenei moemoea he whakaaturanga o te mokemoke me te hiahia mo te pumau o te kare-a-roto, me te tohu kei te waahi koe o te ao e rapu ana koe mo te aroha me te whakahoahoa.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te marena mo te wahine takakau me tetahi tangata e kore e mohiotia ka whakaatu i to hiahia ki te timata i te oranga hou me te ruku ia koe ki roto i te wheako marena hou.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i to kaha ki te whakarereke me te tuwhera ki nga waahi hou me nga wheako ngahau.

Ka tohu pea tenei moemoea i te awangawanga mo te kore e kitea te hoa tika.
Ko te noho takakau pea ka tino taumaha to ngakau, a ka pouri koe mo te noho mokemoke mo te toenga o to oranga.
Kia mahara ko tenei moemoea ehara i te mea e whakaatu ana i to tino pono, engari he whakaaturanga noa iho o o awangawanga ngakau.

Mena ka moemoea koe ki te whakarite ki te marena i tetahi tangata e kore e mohiotia, ka whakaatu pea tenei i to hiahia ki te rapu mea hou me te peke ki nga waahi hou o te ao.
Ka rite pea koe mo nga wero hou me te whakamahi i nga waahi ka puta mai i a koe.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te marena mo te wahine takakau me tetahi tangata e kore e mohiotia e tohu ana i nga kare o te awangawanga, i te kore haumaru ranei i roto i o whanaungatanga o naianei.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te ahua o te awangawanga mo te hono atu ki tetahi tangata e kore e mohiotia me te kore e mohio ki nga mea e tatari ana ki a koe a meake nei.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena

  1. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka whakaatu i te whakawhitinga mai i tetahi wa ki tetahi atu i roto i to oranga.
    He tohu pea mo te whakarite mo te timatanga hou, mo te wahanga hou ranei i roto i to oranga ngaio, aroha ranei.
  2.  Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka tohu i te whanaungatanga me te whanau.
    Ka tohu pea i te noho mai o nga mema o to whanau me o whanaunga i roto i to oranga.
    He tohu mo te hiahia ki te whakapuaki i te harikoa me te whakanui ki te hunga e arohaina ana e koe.
  3. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena he whakaaturanga o te hari o roto me te toenga o to oranga.
    Ka tohu pea kei te koa koe me te koa i tenei wa, ka tohu ranei kei te pirangi koe ki te eke ki tenei ahuatanga o te taurite me te koa.
  4. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka tohu pea i te hiahia ki te whakauru me te uru ki tetahi roopu hapori, ahurea ranei.
    Ka tohu pea i to hiahia ki te noho taurite me to hapori me te whakauru ki a koe.
  5.  Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena ka waiho hei tohu mo te tumanako me te tumanako mo to wa kei te heke mai.
    Ka tohu pea kei te tumanako koe mo nga hua pai me te whakatutuki i au whainga i roto i te ao.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakapaipai i te tane mo te wahine kotahi

  1. Mo te wahine takakau, ko te moemoea mo tana tane e whakapaipai ana ia ia ano ka whakaatu i te hiahia nui kia kitea te aroha, te aro, me te pumau o te ngakau.
    Ka noho te wahine takakau i roto i te ahua o te hiahia me te tatari mo te hoa pai mo te ora, ka puta pea tenei moemoea hei huarahi whakaatu i taua hiahia.
  2. Ko te moemoea o te tane mo te whakapaipai ka whakaatu i te tino maia me te whakaae ki a ia ano i te taha o te wahine takakau.
    Te mana‘o ra paha oia e te faaineine ra o ’na no te farii i te hoê hoa ora e ua ineine oia i te faaite i te huru maitai roa ’‘e o to ’na iho.
  3.  Ko te moemoea mo te tane e whakapaipaihia ana ka tohu i te tumanako o te wahine kotahi ki te kimi i te tangata tika me te whai hononga harikoa me te pumau.
    Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i tana hiahia ki te timata i tetahi oranga hou me tetahi hoa ka atawhai ia ia, ka tohatoha i te aroha me te ngawari ki a ia.
  4. Peneia‘e te faataa ra te hoê moemoeâ no nia i te faaneheneheraa i te hoê tane e e tia i te hoê vahine taa noa ia hi‘opoa i to ’na ineineraa no te oraraa faaipoipo e ia faahaamana‘o ia ’na eiaha e ru i te rave i te mau faaotiraa faufaa.
    Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te hiranga o te puhoi me te whakarite me whai te wahine takakau i mua i te urunga ki te whanaungatanga.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite marena mo te wahine takakau mai i tetahi e mohio ana koe

  1. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite marena mo te wahine takakau me tetahi e mohio ana koe he tohu pea mo to hiahia ki te marena.
    Te faaite ra paha to tatou mau mana‘o hohonu i to tatou anaanatae no a muri a‘e i roto i te mau taairaa o te mau mana‘o hohonu e te faaineineraa ia tatou iho no te hoê oraraa faaipoipo oaoa.
    Ka taea e tenei moemoea te whakaatu i o hiahia me te hiahia ki te whai hoa ora.
  2. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite ki te marena i tetahi tangata e mohio ana koe ka tohu pea kei te whakawhirinaki koe ki te ahua o tenei tangata me te tino whakaute ki a ia.
    Ko tenei moemoea e tohu ana i te kaha o to whanaungatanga me te tangata kua whakahuahia ake nei, me te tohu i te hononga kaha ka tupu i waenganui i a koe.
  3. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te marena ka whakaatu i to hiahia mo te hononga aronganui me te piripono.
    Ka huri pea te moemoea ki nga whakaaro me o hiahia mo te aroha me te marena, a he tohu pea kei te mokemoke koe, kua tae ki te wa ki te whakaaro mo te whanaungatanga nui.
  4. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te marena ka whakaatu pea he tirohanga whaitake ki nga hononga o naianei i roto i to oranga.
    Ka tohu pea kei te hiahia koe ki te arotake i nga korero o te whanaungatanga kei roto koe i tenei wa, ka whakaaro pea koe ki te whakauru atu ki tetahi tangata e tino mohio ana koe, kaua ki te hono atu ki nga tangata hou.
  5. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te marena ka tohu pea i to hiahia ki te hanga i tetahi oranga pumau me te haumaru.
    Ka puta mai tenei moemoea mena kei te neke koe ki te whakarereke me te whakapai ake i to oranga whaiaro, me to hiahia mo te pumau me te harikoa pumau.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea e whakarite ana i te marenatanga o taku hoa wahine

Ki te moemoea to hoa ki te whakarite i tana marena, ko te tikanga kei te harikoa ia me te whakarite ki te timata i tetahi wahanga hou o tona oranga.
Ka hiahia pea ia ki te whakarite i tana marena kia rite ki ana moemoea me ana wawata.

Ko te whakarite i te marena o to hoa i roto i te moemoea e whakaatu ana i tana hiahia mo te pumau me te ahunga whakamua i roto i tona oranga aroha.
Ka whakaaro pea to hoa wahine kei te tata ia ki te kimi i te aroha pono me te timata i te oranga marenatanga.

Ko nga whakaritenga marena a to hoa i roto i te moemoea ka tohu kua rite ia mo te whakarereke me te whanaketanga i roto i tona oranga.
Kua reri pea to hoa wahine ki te wehe atu i tana waahi whakamarie me te whai waahi ki nga hononga hou me nga wheako o te ao.

Ki te moemoea to hoa ki te whakarite i tana marena, ka whakaatu ano pea i tana hiahia ki te kimi i te hoa pai me te taumau tonu.
Kei te pirangi pea tona ngakau ki te aroha pono me te noho tahi i runga i te harikoa me te rangimarie.

Mena kei te mataku to hoa mo ana whakaritenga marena i roto i te moemoea, he tohu pea tenei kei te awangawanga ia mo te whakatutuki i ana whainga i roto i tona oranga aroha.
Kei te mataku ia kare ano ia i reri mo nga whakaritenga hou, ka hiahia ranei ia kia nui ake te wa ki te ata noho me te whakatau tika.

Ko te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite i te marena o to hoa ka rereke mai i tetahi tangata ki tetahi atu, ka whakaatu pea i ona wawata me ana hiahia e pa ana ki te rapu aroha pono me te pumau i roto i tona oranga.
Kia pai ki tenei wa whakahihiri i roto i te oranga o to hoa me te tautoko i ana moemoea me ana wawata.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite kosha mo te wahine marena hou mo te wahine kotahi

  1. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te kosha o te wahine marena hou mo te wahine kotahi ka tohu pea i tana hiahia ki te marena me te timata ki te noho marena.
    Kei te mokemoke pea tenei kotiro, kei te pirangi ranei ki te whai hoa ora me te whakatu whanau.
  2. Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te wai marena mo te wahine kotahi ka tohu pea i te tumanako mo te heke mai me te marena angitu me te harikoa.
    Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te hiahia o te kotiro ki te kimi i te tangata tika hei tiri i te ora me te aroha.
  3. Ko etahi ka kite ko te moemoea mo te whakarite i te kosha o te wahine marena hou mo te wahine kotahi e whakaatu ana i tana whakaae ki tona mana kotahi o naianei.
    Kei te harikoa pea te kotiro ki te mana motuhake me te herekoretanga kei a ia, a, karekau ia e pirangi ki te whakawhanaunga kare-a-roto, hapori ranei i tenei wa.
  4. Ko te whakarite i te kosha o te wahine marena hou e tohu ana i te weriweri me te tumanako ki te aroha i roto i ta tatou tikanga.
    Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te hiahia o te wahine kotahi ki te kimi i te aroha pono me te piripono ki tana hoa a meake nei.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te kore e rite mo te marena mo nga wahine takakau

Ko te moemoea mo te kore e rite mo te marena he whakaaturanga pea mo te wehi mo te pumau o te noho marena me nga kawenga nui ka tae mai.
Ka awangawanga pea te tangata mo tona kaha ki te pupuri me te urutau ki enei huringa.
He tohu mo nga wero kei te heke mai me te mataku ka pa ki te tangata ina marenatia.

Ko te moemoea mo te kore e rite mo te marena e whakaatu ana i te kore o te maia ki to hoa a meake nei.
Te haapeapea ra paha te hoê vahine taa noa no nia i te aravihi o to ’na hoa faaipoipo i te faaî i ta ’na mau tiairaa aore ra i te haamâha i to ’na mau hinaaro i te pae no te mau mana‘o hohonu e te pae materia.
E tohu ana i te feaa me te feaa i roto i nga hononga whaiāipo e haere ake nei.

Ka taea pea ko te moemoea mo te kore e rite mo te marena mo te wahine kotahi e tohu ana i te hiahia mo te whakarite hinengaro me te whakarite mo nga huringa o te ao e haere ake nei.
Ko tenei moemoea pea he tohu e tika ana mo te wahine ki te mahi ki te whakawhanake i a ia ano me te whakarite mo te noho marena i ona ahuatanga katoa.
E whakaatu ana i te hiahia mo te pakeketanga, te noho reri me te urutau.

Ko te moemoea mo te kore e rite mo te marena ka taea hoki te whakaatu i te hiahia mo te herekore me te motuhake.
Tena pea ka koa te wahine takakau me te makona i roto i nga ahuatanga o naianei me te pai ki te noho motuhake me te kore e herea ki tetahi hoa.
He whakaaturanga o tona hiahia ki te pupuri i tona ahuatanga o naianei me te whai waahi ki te whakatau i a ia ano.

Ko te moemoea mo te kore e rite mo te marena he tohu ano te taenga mai o te whakatupato mai i roto.
Ka tohu pea tenei moemoea he take o roto e kore ai te tangata e rite mo te marena i tenei wa.
Tena pea he take whaiaro, he hononga ranei o mua kaore ano kia whakatau tika, me nui ake te wa ki te whakaora me te tipu.

Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena mo te wahine kua marenatia

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena mo te wahine kua marenatia ka tohu pea kei te whakarite ia mo tetahi waahanga hou i roto i tona oranga marena.
Tera pea he huringa nui kei te haere mai, he mea nui ranei e hiahia ana koe ki te whakarite me te whakarite.
Ka taea e tenei moemoea te tohu e hiahia ana ia ki te whakahou i tana hononga ki tana tane, ki te hanga ano ranei i te aroha me te aroha i roto i to raua marena.

Ko te moemoea e pa ana ki te whakarite mo te marena mo te wahine kua marenatia pea e whakaatu ana i tana hiahia mo te pumau o te hinengaro me te haumaru i roto i tona oranga marena.
Ka hiahia pea ia ki te whakapakari i te hononga i waenganui i a ia me tana tane, me te mahi ki te hanga i tetahi whanau pakari me te pumau tahi.
Ko tenei moemoea pea he whakamaharatanga ki a ia mo te hiranga o te haumi i roto i te whanaungatanga marena me te penapena i te wa me nga mahi e tika ana hei whakatutuki i te hari me te pai o te ngakau.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena mo te wahine kua marenatia ka whakaatu ano hoki i te hiahia mo te taurite i waenga i te noho marena me te oranga whaiaro.
Te mana‘o ra paha oia e mea rahi ta ’na mau hopoia i roto i te oraraa utuafare e te oraraa utuafare, no reira e tia ia ineine e ia ineine no te faaho‘i faahou i to ’na faito e no te haapao ia ’na iho.
Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena he tohu ki a ia mo te hiahia ki te whai wa ki te tiaki ia ia ano me te whakatutuki i ona hiahia me ona hiahia.

Ko te moemoea mo te whakarite mo te marena mo te wahine kua marenatia ka tohu pea i tana hiahia ki te whakapai ake i tana whanaungatanga.
Ko tenei moemoea ka mau pea i te ahua o te hiahia ki te whakaaro mo nga waahanga ka taea te whakapai ake i roto i te whanaungatanga me te mahi ki te whakarei ake i te hononga aronganui me te mohio ki te hoa.
Ka tohu pea tenei moemoea e hiahia ana ia ki te whakarite i a ia ano ki te whiwhi i nga huringa pai i roto i te whanaungatanga me te whakarei ake i te korero me te pai ki tana tane.

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