Ko te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te tuahine o taku tane e kino ana ki ahau
- Te mauahara me te whakataetae: Ko etahi o nga tohunga mo te whakamaori moemoea e whakapono ana ko te tuahine o to tane e kino ana ki a koe ka tohu pea he whakataetae nui kei waenganui ia koe, he kino kino ranei tana ki a koe.
Ko enei kare e pa ana ki te tuku iho, ki te whakaaro tahi ranei a te whanau. - Te raruraru o te whanaungatanga whanau: Ko tenei hae me te mauahara i roto i te moemoea e whakaatu ana i te piki haere o te raruraru i waenganui ia koe me te whanau o to tane.
He tautohetohe kaore ano kia whakatauhia, he tautohetohe ranei mo nga whakapono o te whanau me nga uara, ka kitea enei tautohetohe i roto i o moemoea. - Te wehi ki te ngaro i te tane: Ko te moemoea mo te tuahine o to tane e kino ana ki a koe ka tohu pea i to mataku kei pa kino koe ki a ia ka ngaro ia hei hoa mo te ao.
Peneia‘e te haapeapea ra oe na to oe taairaa fifi e o ’na e faataa ê atu i to oe tane. - He pai te korero: I etahi wa, ko te aroaro o to taokete e kino ana ki a koe i roto i to moemoea ka puta mai i te kino o te korero me te korero i waenganui ia koe i roto i te pono.
Ko tenei moemoea pea he tohu kia pai ake te korero me te hanga hononga pai ake. - Maharahara whaiaro: Ko te moemoea mo to taokete e kino ana ki a koe i etahi wa ka whakaatu noa i te awangawanga whaiaro e pa ana ki a koe takitahi.
Kei te mamae pea koe i te kore o te maia ki a koe ano, i te kore e manakohia e nga mema o te whanau o to tane, a ka kitea enei ahuatanga i roto i to moemoea.
Te kitenga i te tuahine Te tane i roto i te moemoea mo te marena
- Te tautoko a te whanau me te whanaungatanga: Ka tohu pea tenei tirohanga i te hiranga o te whanaungatanga whanau me te whanaungatanga ki a koe.
Ko te moemoea pea he tohu kei te tiaki koe me te whakapakari i te whanaungatanga me te whanau o to tane, kei te kite ranei koe i te wa puāwaitanga mo enei hononga. - Tautoko me te Tiaki: Ko te kite i te tuahine o to tane i roto i te moemoea he tohu pea tera tetahi atu tangata i roto i to oranga e tuku tautoko me te whakamarumaru ki a koe.
He mema tata o te whanau tenei tangata e whai waahi ana ki te tiaki me te tautoko i a koe i roto i to haerenga marena. - Te awangawanga me te whakawhitiwhiti korero: Ko tenei tirohanga ka tohu pea i te ahua o te awangawanga me te awangawanga i roto i to whanaungatanga me to tane.
Te mana‘o ra anei outou e te vai ra te fifi i roto i te aparauraa e o ’na, aore ra te vai ra paha te tahi mau fifi e mau fifi ta orua e farerei amui ra?
Ka taea e tenei tirohanga te whakamaumahara ki a koe mo te hiranga o te korerorero me te korero marama me to tane ki te whakaoti rapanga. - Te piri ki te whanau tuarua: Mena kua marena koe, a i roto i to moemoea ka kite koe i te tuahine o to tane, tera pea te tikanga kei te hanga koe i tetahi whanau hou, ka piki ake to paanga ki te whanau o to tane.
Ka taea e tenei tirohanga te whakaatu i to mahi ki te whakawhānui ake i te roopu whanau me to hiahia ki te hanga hononga kaha ki nga mema o te whanau o to tane.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo taku taokete e kino ana ki ahau mo te hapu
Ko te moemoea mo to taokete e kino ana ki a koe ka tohu pea he raruraru, he raruraru whanau ranei kei a koe.
He taupatupatu, he tautohetohe ranei kei waenganui i a koe me nga mema o te whanau whanui, a ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i o mataku me o awangawanga mo tenei ahuatanga uaua.
Ko te moemoea o to taokete e kino ana ki a koe ka whakaatu i to puhaehae, whakataetae ranei ki a ia.
Ka whakaaro pea koe kei te mahi he ia, kei te ngana ranei ki te noho pukumahi me to tane i tawhiti atu i a koe, a ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te kore o te maia me te awangawanga e pa ana ki tenei hononga.
Ko tenei moemoea e pa ana ki nga wehi e pa ana ki te hapu me te whaea.
Ahakoa ko koe i te timatanga o te haputanga, kei roto ranei i nga waahanga o mua, ka nui ake pea nga karekau taupatupatu me nga awangawanga i roto i te haputanga.
Ka taea e te moemoea te whakaatu i te tino awangawanga mo to kaha ki te whakatutuki angitu i to mahi hei whaea me te whakarato i te aroha me te manaaki e tika ana mo to tamaiti.
Ko te moemoea o to taokete e kino ana ki a koe ka tohu i nga pakanga whaiaro o roto.
He ahua kino pea o to ahuatanga me to whanonga e ngana ana koe ki te hinga, ki te whakapai ake ranei.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te hiahia ki te wikitoria i enei pakanga o roto me te whakawhanake pai i a koe.
Ko te moemoea e pa ana ki to taokete e kino ana ki a koe ka whakaatu pea i te taurite o te whanau me nga karekau taupatupatu.
Ka taea e ia te tohu he hiahia ki te whakatikatika i nga hononga whanau me te rapu hononga pai ake ki a raatau.
E tohu ana hoki tenei moemoea he mea nui kia pai ake te noho tahi, te maramatanga me te whakawhitiwhiti korero me nga mema o te whanau kia pai ai te rangimarie me te koa.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te tuahine o taku tane e homai kai ana ki ahau
- Moemoea whakaute me te tuakana:
Ko to moemoea mo te tuahine o to tane ka hoatu kai ki a koe ka whakaatu pea i te whakaute me te maioha o to tane me tona whanau ki a koe.
Ka tohu pea i te whakahoahoatanga, i nga hononga whanau kaha, me te tuakanatanga i waenganui i a koe me to whanau. - Whakawhitiwhiti me te taurite:
Ko te kite i te tuahine o to tane e hoatu ana he kai ki a koe he tohu tera pea me korero koe me te mohio ake ki te whanau o to tane.
Ka tohu pea he nui ake te wa me te whakapau kaha ki te whakawhanake i to whanaungatanga me te whakapumau i nga hononga pakari me te pumau. - Te tango me te tiaki:
Ko te kite i to taokete e hoatu kai ana ki a koe ka whakaatu pea i te hiahia ki te whangai, ki te manaaki, ki te manaaki i tetahi mema o te whanau, tangata tata ranei ki a koe.
Ka tohu pea i to hiahia ki te whangai me te tautoko i etahi atu, me te manaaki me te awhina i o raatau oranga o ia ra. - Te whakapuaki i nga hiahia me nga hiahia:
Ka tohu pea to moemoea me tino marama ake, tika hoki te whakapuaki i o hiahia me o hiahia.
Ka tohu pea ki te hiranga o te korero pono me te tika i waenga i nga tangata kia pai ai te maarama me te pai. - Te hiahia mo te whanau nui:
Ko te moemoea mo te tuahine o to tane e hoatu ana he kai ki a koe ka whakaatu i to hiahia ki te hanga i tetahi whanau nui me te whakawhānui ake i te porowhita o nga hononga whanau ki a koe ake.
Ka taea e ia te whakaatu i te hiahia ki te kite i te tipu o te aroha me te hononga o te whanau.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te tuahine Te tane i roto i te moemoea mo te wahine kua whakarerea
- Te hiahia mo te whakapiri: Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i to hiahia kia pai ake te whanaungatanga me to taokete kua whakarerea.
Ka whakaaro pea koe me nui ake te tautoko me te whakaaro no roto i to oranga kua whakarerea i muri i te wehenga. - Karekau e raru ana: Mena kei te riri koe, kei te pouri ranei koe ki to hoa rangatira o mua, ki to whanaungatanga ranei, tera pea tenei moemoea e whakaatu.
He tohu pea mo nga kare-a-roto me te wehe kee kei a koe. - Te hae me te feaa: Ko te kite i te tuahine o to tane i roto i te moemoea mo te wahine kua whakarerea ka tohu pea ka hae koe, ka pohehe ranei mo tana hononga pea me to hoa tane o mua.
He whakamaumaharatanga pea tenei ki a koe me whakahaere e koe enei kare-a-roto me te korero maataa ki a koe mena ka whakaaro koe he tino take kei te awangawanga koe. - Te kotahitanga me te aroha: Ko te moemoea o te tuahine o to tane i roto i te moemoea mo te wahine kua whakarerea he ahua o to hiahia ki te whakarato tautoko me te awhina ki a ia i roto i te wa uaua.
Peneia‘e te here e te aumauiui oia i roto i te hoê huru taa ê.
Te kitenga i te iramutu Ko te tane i roto i te moemoea mo te wahine marena
- Whanau me te whanaungatanga:
Mo te wahine kua marenatia, ko te kite moemoea i te tama a te tuahine o tana tane he tohu whanau me te whanaungatanga.
He hiahia pea ki te whakapiri atu ki nga mema o te whanau me te pupuri hononga whanau.
Ka tohu pea tenei i te hiranga o te whanau i roto i to oranga me to hiahia ki te pupuri hononga me te korero ki nga mema katoa o te whanau. - Nga tamariki me te kawenga:
Ko tenei matakite pea he matapae mo te ahua o te tangata iti i roto i to oranga, ahakoa kei mua, kei te heke mai ranei.
Ka tohu pea tenei tirohanga i to hiahia ki te hapu me te whanau tamariki, ka whakaatu pea i o kawenga hei whaea ki etahi atu tamariki, i to aroha ki nga tamariki whanui. - Whanaungatanga hapori:
Ko te kite i te iramutu o te tane i roto i te moemoea mo te wahine kua marenatia ka whakaatu pea i to hiahia ki te whakawhānui ake i to porowhita o nga hononga hapori.
He tangata hou pea kei roto i to oranga e tohu ana i tetahi hoahoanga nui, hononga hapori ranei mo koe.
Ko tenei tirohanga pea he tohu mo te wa e haere ake nei ki te whakawhānui ake i to whatunga hapori me te tutaki ki nga tangata hou.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te tuahine o taku tane e whakawai ana i ahau
- Te whakaaro kore: Ko te moemoea pea he whakaata o to whakaaro o te noho haumaru, o te whakawhirinaki ranei ki to whanaungatanga me to taokete.
Tera pea he tautohetohe o mua, he raruraru ranei e pouri ai koe, e riri ana ranei. - Te kore o te whakaae: Ko te moemoea e tohu ana kaore koe e whakaaehia e te tuahine o to tane.
Tera pea he tautohetohe, he rereke ranei o nga ahuatanga o te tangata, o nga uara ranei e kore ai koe e pai ki te mahi tetahi ki tetahi. - He tohu mo nga tautohetohe o mua: Ko te moemoea e tohu ana ka kaha ano nga tautohetohe o mua, engari ka kaha ake te kaha.
Ka waiho tenei hei whakamaumahara ki a koe ki te whakatau i nga tautohetohe o mua me te mahi ki te hanga hononga pai ake. - Te taumahatanga o te whanau: Ka whakaatu pea te moemoea i nga raruraru o te whanau kei waenganui i a koe me to taokete.
Tera pea he taupatupatu, he tautohetohe ranei i roto i te whanau ka kitea i roto i nga moemoea ka raru koe. - Te feaa me te awangawanga: Ka tohu pea te moemoea he ruarua me te awangawanga kei roto i to whanaungatanga me to taokete.
Ka whakaaro pea koe he mahi kino kei waenganui i a koe, he whanonga kino ranei e pa ana ki to whanaungatanga. - Te hiahia ki te whakawhitiwhiti korero: Ko te moemoea he tohu kei te pirangi koe ki te whakapai ake i te whanaungatanga me to taokete.
He whakamaumaharatanga pea tenei ki a koe me kaha ake koe ki te whakawhitiwhiti korero me te whakapakari i te whakawhirinaki me te whakaute tahi. - Te hiahia mo te korerorero: Ka tohu pea te moemoea he mea nui ki a koe te noho tahi me te korero tuwhera mo nga raruraru me nga rereketanga kei reira.
He whakamaumahara pea tenei whakatupato ki a koe mo te hiahia kia pai te whakawhitiwhiti korero me te rapu rongoa mo nga raru pea.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te taokete hapu
1- Moemoea mo te kite i te tamaiti: Ka kite pea te tuahine o to tane e hapu ana kei te whanau he tamaiti i roto i tana moemoea.
Ko tenei moemoea e tohu ana i te hiahia mo te hapu me te whaea, me te tohu kua rite ia mo tenei kawenga hou.
2- Moemoea ki te kite i te tamaiti hou: Ka moemoea te tuahine o te tane ki te kite i tana tamaiti hou i roto i tana moemoea i mua i tona whanautanga.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te hiahia me te ngakau nui ki te kite i te tamaiti hou me tona reri ki te mahi whaea.
3- He moemoea e pa ana ki nga aitua whanau: Ka puta pea nga mataku e pa ana ki te whanautanga i roto i nga moemoea a te taokete, penei i te whanau uaua, i nga raruraru hauora ranei.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i te awangawanga me te mataku ki nga wheako whanau.
4- He moemoea mo nga koroheke: Ka moemoea ano te tuahine o te tane ki te kite i nga koroheke i roto i tona oranga, penei i ona whanaunga kua mate.
Ko tenei moemoea he tohu kei te whakanui i tana peepi hou, he tohu pea kei a ia tetahi wairua tawhito i tenei haerenga.
5- He moemoea mo nga tae kanapa: Ko nga tae kanapa me nga tae kanapa, penei i te kowhai, te puru ranei, ka puta pea i roto i nga moemoea o te taokete hapu.
Ka taea e tenei moemoea te tohu i te hari, te rangimarie o roto, me te hiahia ki te kite i te ora i roto i te huarahi pai.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te tuahine o taku tane e tawai ana i ahau
- Tohutoro ki te whakaputa korero:
Ko te moemoea o te tuahine o to tane e kanga ana ia koe ka tohu pea i nga raruraru me nga raruraru ka pa ki a koe i roto i te whanaungatanga me tona tuahine.
He tautohetohe, he raruraru ranei kei waenganui i a koe me nga kare-a-roto kino ka whakakiia te whanaungatanga.
Ko tenei moemoea e akiaki ana i a koe ki te whakaeke tika i nga raru pea ka mahi ki te whakaoti marie me te whai hua. - Te reo hauhautanga:
Ko te moemoea mo te kanga a to taokete ki a koe he tohu pea mo te pouri e pa ana ki a ia ki te taiao o tona whanau.
Ko te tautohetohe, ko nga korero kino ranei i roto i te moemoea ka tohu pea he raruraru kei roto i te whanaungatanga o te whanau.
Ko enei karere he pokanoa kino, he tumanako kore ranei i runga i a koe. - Ko te hiahia ki te whakawhitiwhiti korero me te noho mai:
Ko te moemoea mo to taokete e tawai ana ki a koe he tohu noa mo te hiahia ki te whakatuwhera me te korero ki to taokete me te mahi ki te whakawhanake i tetahi hononga hauora me te pai ki a ia.
Ka kawea pea e te moemoea he korero ki a koe me ia mo te hiahia ki te arotake ano i te whanaungatanga me te mahi ki te whakapai ake i roto i nga korerorero pono me te pono. - Te tohu o nga kare-a-roto kua pehia:
Ko te moemoea mo te kanga a to taokete ki a koe he tohu pea mo te ahua o nga kare-a-roto, huna ranei e pa ana ki to tane ake.
Ko te raruraru i roto i te moemoea ka puta mai i te kore e kaha ki te whakapuaki tika i enei kare-a-roto, na reira ka puta mai i roto i te ahua tohu.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te tuahine o taku tane e tangi ana
- Te awangawanga me nga kare kino:
Ko to moemoea pea e whakaata ana i to awangawanga hohonu, i to whakaaro kino ranei ki to taokete.
Ko te kite i tetahi e tangi ana i roto i te moemoea he tohu he ngoikoretanga, he pouri ranei.
Ka pouri pea koe mo to whanaungatanga me to taokete, he tautohetohe ranei kei waenganui i a koe.
He whakamaharatanga pea tenei moemoea mo koe ki te toro atu ki te whakahaere i enei kare-a-roto kino. - Ko te hiahia me te hiahia:
Ko to moemoea e pa ana ki te hiahia me te nostalgia mo te tuahine o to tane, ina koa he tata me te motuhake te hononga i waenganui ia koe.
Ka ngaro pea koe ki a ia me te hiahia mo te wa e noho ana ia, kei tawhiti atu ranei koe i a koe.
Ko tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i to hiahia ki te pupuri i to whanaungatanga kia pai, kia kaha. - Maharahara hae:
Ko to moemoea pea he tohu mo te hae me te whakataetae.
Mena kei te hae koe ki te tuahine o to tane na te mea he hononga tata ki a ia, ki te whakaaro ranei koe he nui rawa te wa me te aro nui ki a ia, ka kitea pea tenei i roto i o moemoea.
Ka tohu pea te moemoea e hiahia ana koe kia nui ake to whakaaro me te aroha mai i to tane. - Whakatupato, tohu ranei mo te raru pea:
Ko te moemoea he tohu pea mo te raru pea i roto i to whanaungatanga me to taokete, i roto ranei i nga hononga whanau whanui.
Ka whakatupato pea te moemoea ki a koe mo nga tautohetohe me nga raruraru ka ara ake a muri ake nei.
Mena kei te kite koe i te raruraru, i te raruraru ranei ki a ia, ko te moemoea he whakamaharatanga me tere koe ki te whakatau i tenei take. - Te hiahia ki te whakaoti rapanga, ki te tautoko ranei:
Ko to moemoea mo te tangi o to taokete ka pa atu pea ki to hiahia ki te awhina ia ia, ki te whakaoti ranei i tetahi raru kei a ia.
Kei te whakaaro koe kei te raru ia, kei te mamae ranei a kei te hiahia koe ki to awhina.
Ko tenei moemoea he tohu ki a koe ka taea e koe te tuku ringa awhina me te tautoko ki a ia i tenei wa uaua.
Te whakamaoritanga o te moemoea mo te iramutu o taku tane
- Te whakarato i te whakamarumaru: Ko te moemoea mo te kite i te iramutu o taku tane ka tohu pea he hiahia mo te whakamarumaru me te tautoko.
He tohu pea tenei moemoea he tangata tata ki a koe ka whai waahi ki te tiaki me te tautoko i a koe i tenei wa. - Whanaungatanga Hapori: Ka whakaatu pea tenei moemoea i to hiahia ki te hanga hononga hapori kaha ake.
Ko te kite i te iramutu o taku tane i roto i te moemoea he tohu kei te whai waahi hou ki te whakawhānui ake i to roopu o nga hoa mohio me te hanga hoa hou. - Te piri ki te whanau: Ko te moemoea kia kite i te iramutu o taku tane ka whakaatu pea i te hiahia kia pai te whanau me te whakakotahi.
Ko tenei moemoea he tohu pea kei te pirangi koe ki te korero me te whakatata atu ki nga mema o to whanau, ki te hanga whanau hou ranei. - Te whakauru hapori: Ka tohu pea tenei moemoea e hiahia ana koe ki te whakauru ki te hapori, ki tetahi roopu ranei.
Ko te kite moemoea i te iramutu a taku tane ka whakaatu pea i to hiahia kia uru ki tetahi hapori, roopu tangata ranei. - Te hiahia mo te whanau whanau: I etahi wa, ko te moemoea mo te kite i te iramutu o taku tane ka tohu i te hiahia ki te timata i te whanau me te whanau.
Mena kei te whakaaro koe ki te whakatau me te whakatu whanau, he tohu pai tenei moemoea e whakaatu ana i to hiahia ki te whakatutuki i tenei whainga.
